Sunday, March 28, 2010
Thursday, December 17, 2009
先来先得?
-NO man is kept poor because opportunity has been taken away from him; because other people have monopolized the wealth, and have put a fence around it. You may be shut off from engaging in business in certain lines, but there are other channels open to you.
- No man, therefore, is poor because nature is poor, or because there is not enough to go around.
Chapter 3: Is Opportunity Monopolized?
- No man, therefore, is poor because nature is poor, or because there is not enough to go around.
The Formless Stuff is intelligent; it is stuff which thinks. It is alive, and is always impelled toward more life.
It is the natural and inherent impulse of life to seek to live more; it is the nature of intelligence to enlarge itself, and of consciousness to seek to extend its boundaries and find fuller expression. The universe of forms has been made by Formless Living Substance, throwing itself into form in order to express itself more fully.
The universe is a great Living Presence, always moving inherently toward more life and fuller functioning.
Nature is formed for the advancement of life; its impelling motive is the increase of life. For this cause, everything which can possibly minister to life is bountifully provided; there can be no lack unless God is to contradict himself and nullify his own works.
You are not kept poor by lack in the supply of riches;...Chapter 3: Is Opportunity Monopolized?
心想事成
THERE is a Science of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like algebra or arithmetic. There are certain laws which govern the process of acquiring riches; once these laws are learned and obeyed by any man, he will get rich with mathematical certainty...
No one is prevented from getting rich by lack of capital. True, as you get capital the increase becomes more easy and rapid; but one who has capital is already rich, and does not need to consider how to become so. No matter how poor you may be, if you begin to do things in the Certain Way you will begin to get rich; and you will begin to have capital. The getting of capital is a part of the process of getting rich; and it is a part of the result which invariably follows the doing of things in the Certain Way. You may be the poorest man on the continent, and be deeply in debt; you may have neither friends, influence, nor resources; but if you begin to do things in this way, you must infallibly begin to get rich, for like causes must produce like effects. If you have no capital, you can get capital; if you are in the wrong business, you can get into the right business; if you are in the wrong location, you can go to the right location; and you can do so by beginning in your present business and in your present location to do things in the Certain Way which causes success.
Chapter 2: There is A Science of Getting Rich
No one is prevented from getting rich by lack of capital. True, as you get capital the increase becomes more easy and rapid; but one who has capital is already rich, and does not need to consider how to become so. No matter how poor you may be, if you begin to do things in the Certain Way you will begin to get rich; and you will begin to have capital. The getting of capital is a part of the process of getting rich; and it is a part of the result which invariably follows the doing of things in the Certain Way. You may be the poorest man on the continent, and be deeply in debt; you may have neither friends, influence, nor resources; but if you begin to do things in this way, you must infallibly begin to get rich, for like causes must produce like effects. If you have no capital, you can get capital; if you are in the wrong business, you can get into the right business; if you are in the wrong location, you can go to the right location; and you can do so by beginning in your present business and in your present location to do things in the Certain Way which causes success.
Chapter 2: There is A Science of Getting Rich
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
...my point of views
When ever you think I have a point here, can just come here to read what I have to say
Human in general naturally need example for them to believe, seeing is believing. And can't prove to you whats can work, what cannot and as I can’t put myself into the same situation as yours, set an example to you now.
I know I don't understand your situation, I know It's not easy, I just want to maybe...
I am borrowing wisdom from others to help you. They are great mentors, the people who intelligent enough to help .
Human in general naturally need example for them to believe, seeing is believing. And can't prove to you whats can work, what cannot and as I can’t put myself into the same situation as yours, set an example to you now.
I know I don't understand your situation, I know It's not easy, I just want to maybe...
I am borrowing wisdom from others to help you. They are great mentors, the people who intelligent enough to help .
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
God's Way of Delivering Divine Answers, Gifts...open your mind, your heart and Listen from Him
A farmer is in Iowa during a flood. The river is overflowing, with water surrounding the farmer’s home up to his front porch. As he is standing there, a boat comes up, The man in the boat says “Jump in, I’ll take you to safety.”
The farmer crosses his arms and says stubbornly, “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The boat goes away. The water rises to the second floor. Another boat comes up, the man says to the farmer who is now in the second story window, “Jump in, I’ll save you.”
The farmer again says, “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The boat goes away. Now the water is up to the roof. As The farmer stands on the roof, a helicopter comes over, and drops a ladder. The pilot yells down to the farmer “I’ll save you, climb the ladder.”
The farmer says “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The helicopter goes away. The water continues to rise and sweeps the farmer off the roof. He drowns.
The farmer goes to heaven. God sees him and says “What are you doing here?”
The farmer says “I put my trust in you and you let me down.”
God says, “What do you mean, let you down? I sent you two boats and a helicopter!!!”
... have you missed the boats? I hope you will get into the helicopter. or maybe something not what you expected from him but which can rescue you.
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"I form the light, and create darkness.'—Isaiah 45:7.
Everything that god does has a design. When God creates light he has a reason for it, and when he creates darkness he has a reason for it too. God does not always tell us his reason; he always has one, We call him a sovereign God, because sometimes he acts from reasons which are beyond our knowledge; but he is never an unreasoning God. It is according to the counsel of his will that he works; not according to his will, but according to the counsel of his will, to show you that there is a reason, a wisdom and counsel in everything that he does.
~http://rioabrenica.blogspot.com/2009/07/god-and-eclipse.html
The farmer crosses his arms and says stubbornly, “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The boat goes away. The water rises to the second floor. Another boat comes up, the man says to the farmer who is now in the second story window, “Jump in, I’ll save you.”
The farmer again says, “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The boat goes away. Now the water is up to the roof. As The farmer stands on the roof, a helicopter comes over, and drops a ladder. The pilot yells down to the farmer “I’ll save you, climb the ladder.”
The farmer says “Nope, I put my trust in God.”
The helicopter goes away. The water continues to rise and sweeps the farmer off the roof. He drowns.
The farmer goes to heaven. God sees him and says “What are you doing here?”
The farmer says “I put my trust in you and you let me down.”
God says, “What do you mean, let you down? I sent you two boats and a helicopter!!!”
... have you missed the boats? I hope you will get into the helicopter. or maybe something not what you expected from him but which can rescue you.
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"I form the light, and create darkness.'—Isaiah 45:7.
Everything that god does has a design. When God creates light he has a reason for it, and when he creates darkness he has a reason for it too. God does not always tell us his reason; he always has one, We call him a sovereign God, because sometimes he acts from reasons which are beyond our knowledge; but he is never an unreasoning God. It is according to the counsel of his will that he works; not according to his will, but according to the counsel of his will, to show you that there is a reason, a wisdom and counsel in everything that he does.
~http://rioabrenica.blogspot.com/2009/07/god-and-eclipse.html
受害者方式
How many times do we blame somebody's else? You know, "My goodness! I could be successful, they are sabotashing me. Yeah, if only they could be more supportive, I could be successful. If only my boss give me a rise, if only management be more resonable, if only the children act more civilized, if only the stock market would go up then our problems would be solved.
And while it seems easy to blame somebody else to out problems right? Utimately it renders us powerless 无力. Because it’s hard enough to change our own behavoir much less changing somebody else. Right? And the moment we realized the solution to whatever you wanna create in 2003 and beyond... Start Right Here. The truth is our life can be transformed, because it takes out from the victim mode 受害者方式 waiting for somebody else , and put us into control of our life…
~Cynthia Kersey 7 Steps To Becoming Unstoppable
And while it seems easy to blame somebody else to out problems right? Utimately it renders us powerless 无力. Because it’s hard enough to change our own behavoir much less changing somebody else. Right? And the moment we realized the solution to whatever you wanna create in 2003 and beyond... Start Right Here. The truth is our life can be transformed, because it takes out from the victim mode 受害者方式 waiting for somebody else , and put us into control of our life…
~Cynthia Kersey 7 Steps To Becoming Unstoppable
Saturday, November 28, 2009
绝处逢生
【解释】：绝处：死路。形容在最危险的时候得到生路。
“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” ~Albert Einstein
... opportunity come when we learn from the mistakes, and make the right decisions, actions in the future.
... opportunity to know whats is important for life.
“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” ~Albert Einstein
... opportunity come when we learn from the mistakes, and make the right decisions, actions in the future.
... opportunity to know whats is important for life.
如果您足够清楚知道您自己想要的，外在情况是已经不重要了
My circumstance is different, you do not know what I am facing... this is not just about me, It's also involved the people who is with me.
Yes- Infact this is all about you now, who else have the energy, the right mind to solve the problem? the kid or the mindless mother?
Yes- Infact this is all about you now, who else have the energy, the right mind to solve the problem? the kid or the mindless mother?
POWER OF THE MASTER MIND
Since The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein we need a third mind.
Mastermind principle:
"The coordination of knowledge and effort of two or more people, who work toward a definite purpose, in the spirit of harmony."
"No two minds ever come together without thereby creating a third, invisible intangible force, which may be likened to a third mind."
~Napolean Hill
Mastermind principle:
"The coordination of knowledge and effort of two or more people, who work toward a definite purpose, in the spirit of harmony."
"No two minds ever come together without thereby creating a third, invisible intangible force, which may be likened to a third mind."
~Napolean Hill
遇强则强
遇强则强，越挫折越勇。
The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein
The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein
愤世嫉俗
愤世嫉俗 有用吗?
不要浪费时间思考或谈论当权者有什么缺点...
Do not waste time thinking or talking about the shortcomings or wrong actions of plutocrats or trust magnates. Their organization of the world has made your opportunity; all you get really comes to you because of them.
Do not rage against, corrupt politicians; if it were not for politicians we should fall into anarchy, and your opportunity would be greatly lessened.
神花了很长时间﹐很有耐心地工作﹐才讓我们我们在工业和政府方面有这样的成绩, 而他仍在继续动工当中。
God has worked a long time and very patiently to bring us up to where we are in industry and government, and He is going right on with His work. There is not the least doubt that He will do away with plutocrats, trust magnates, captains of industry, and politicians as soon as they can be spared; but in the meantime, behold they are all very good. Remember that they are all helping to arrange the lines of transmission along which your riches will come to you, and be grateful to them all. This will bring you into harmonious relations with the good in everything, and the good in everything will move toward you.
~The Science of Getting Rich
Chapter 7: Gratitude
不要浪费时间思考或谈论当权者有什么缺点...
Do not waste time thinking or talking about the shortcomings or wrong actions of plutocrats or trust magnates. Their organization of the world has made your opportunity; all you get really comes to you because of them.
Do not rage against, corrupt politicians; if it were not for politicians we should fall into anarchy, and your opportunity would be greatly lessened.
神花了很长时间﹐很有耐心地工作﹐才讓我们我们在工业和政府方面有这样的成绩, 而他仍在继续动工当中。
God has worked a long time and very patiently to bring us up to where we are in industry and government, and He is going right on with His work. There is not the least doubt that He will do away with plutocrats, trust magnates, captains of industry, and politicians as soon as they can be spared; but in the meantime, behold they are all very good. Remember that they are all helping to arrange the lines of transmission along which your riches will come to you, and be grateful to them all. This will bring you into harmonious relations with the good in everything, and the good in everything will move toward you.
~The Science of Getting Rich
Chapter 7: Gratitude
幸运守则第3条
如果你时运不济， 或许是因为环境一成不变的缘故。 若想要幸运临门， 最有效的办法便是创造新环境。
Change the Church, Change the friends, Change the people around you...
Good Luck~当幸运来敲门
Change the Church, Change the friends, Change the people around you...
Good Luck~当幸运来敲门
选择,抉择
人生四个抉择: 教师, 配偶, 朋友, (终身的)职业
好老师使人受益一生
好配偶使人活在爱中
好朋友使人得到快乐
好事业人生 就完美了
-Amway convention 2009
Crown Ambassador Direct Distriutor
Anita (HK)
你选择对了,你的一生都走的好.
选择对了赢一生.
好老师使人受益一生
好配偶使人活在爱中
好朋友使人得到快乐
好事业人生 就完美了
-Amway convention 2009
Crown Ambassador Direct Distriutor
Anita (HK)
你选择对了,你的一生都走的好.
选择对了赢一生.
人类的终极自由
The last of the human freedoms is to choose one's attitudes. (人类的终极自由就是选择自己的态度。)——Victor Frankl 维克多.弗兰克
弗兰克：黑暗中的朝圣者 Victor Frankl (1905-1997)
1942年，纳粹逼近奥地利，27岁的维克多.弗兰克犹豫着要不要到美国避难。他已申请迁往美国的签证，但不能带走家人。凭借自己作为心理治疗师的那点小名声，留下来也许还能保护家人，可家人却催促他快些离开。签证通过了，弗兰克内心的矛盾激化了。别上那枚标志着犹太人身份的黄色小星星，步入位于维也纳市中心的圣斯蒂芬教堂，维克多静默祈祷：“主啊，请给我一个启示吧？”他究竟该带着一起被救的希望与家人留在维也纳，还是该只身前往美国，在那可以继续自己的心理学事业？当弗兰克回到家，发现父亲在流泪：“维克多，纳粹刚毁了犹太会教堂。”父亲手中紧握着的那块大理石碎片上刻着《十诫》中的首条：“荣耀你的父母，地上的生命将得到延续。”弗兰克拨通美国大使馆电话，取消了签证。他觉得自己已得到上帝的启示……命运终究无法抗拒。1942年至1945年，从奥斯维辛到巴伐利亚，辗转四个集中营，弗兰克发现自己几乎丧失了一切，父母、兄弟、妻子或病死于营中，或被送进了毒气室。当他在每天的饥饿、寒冷、拷打中意识到自己“除了可笑的赤裸裸的生命之外，没有任何东西可失去”时，他还能做些什么，还能发现生命有什么值得留恋的？
让们我按弗兰克划分的从“入营”到“出营”一个人所经历的三个心理阶段的顺序向你一一道来。弗兰克是如何在一个极端残酷的境遇中寻找生命的意义，如何将亲身经历融入其“意义理论”之中。
对我们的启示:
弗兰克说，“我们每个人都有自己心中的集中营……我们必须去面对，带着宽容，带着耐心——如同一个真正的人，如同我们现在与将来要成为的那个人。”在弗兰克的意义理论中，他提出人有三条途径去寻得生命的意义：一是通过主动创造性的工作。二是通过被动的体验，这儿的体验指的是对大自然，对艺术的欣赏，对爱情的感受。弗兰克认为真正的爱情是超越外表与性，进入到对方的精神内核，将对方视作独一无二的个体来珍视。第三，也是最高成就的意义，苦难的意义，在集中营的极端的环境中体现到极致。在意义的追寻中，弗兰克强调“自由与责任”。这儿的“自由”不是指自由地选择自己的境遇，而是对不可逆转的境遇，自由地选择面对它的态度。另一种意义上说，这种自由选择是对自己生命的负责。意义学派将“责任”视为人类存在中最重要的东西。在此，我们将弗兰克对责任的表述送给大家：“如同你在用第二次生命那样去生命，如同你第一次做错了现在重新开始。”弗兰克认为追寻自己存在的意义是独属于人的原始驱力。许多人来心理求助并非由于他们有心理疾病，而是他们对所经历所承受的东西寻不到意义，痛苦源自没有价值感的空虚。“知道自己为何而活的人就能承受几乎所有境遇中如何去活的问题。”意义治疗的目标之一，就是引导患者发现所正经受的痛苦的意义，知道为何要承受，也就能坦然地去承受了。对于我们这些学习着工作着的幸福的人来说，总会有那么些时刻,我们不得不缓下自己的脚步,问问自己:我们能不能承受生命之痛——对于那些已无法挽回的东西?能不能承受生命之重——带者内心的责任与爱,带着为人的尊严去面对一切?能不能承受生命之轻——在空虚甚至堕落之后,重新充盈自己的内心,重拾生命的信念?能不能? 弗兰克微笑着对你说:”这是你的自由,也是你的责任。”
让们我按弗兰克划分的从“入营”到“出营”一个人所经历的三个心理阶段的顺序向你一一道来。弗兰克是如何在一个极端残酷的境遇中寻找生命的意义，如何将亲身经历融入其“意义理论”之中。
对我们的启示:
弗兰克说，“我们每个人都有自己心中的集中营……我们必须去面对，带着宽容，带着耐心——如同一个真正的人，如同我们现在与将来要成为的那个人。”在弗兰克的意义理论中，他提出人有三条途径去寻得生命的意义：一是通过主动创造性的工作。二是通过被动的体验，这儿的体验指的是对大自然，对艺术的欣赏，对爱情的感受。弗兰克认为真正的爱情是超越外表与性，进入到对方的精神内核，将对方视作独一无二的个体来珍视。第三，也是最高成就的意义，苦难的意义，在集中营的极端的环境中体现到极致。在意义的追寻中，弗兰克强调“自由与责任”。这儿的“自由”不是指自由地选择自己的境遇，而是对不可逆转的境遇，自由地选择面对它的态度。另一种意义上说，这种自由选择是对自己生命的负责。意义学派将“责任”视为人类存在中最重要的东西。在此，我们将弗兰克对责任的表述送给大家：“如同你在用第二次生命那样去生命，如同你第一次做错了现在重新开始。”弗兰克认为追寻自己存在的意义是独属于人的原始驱力。许多人来心理求助并非由于他们有心理疾病，而是他们对所经历所承受的东西寻不到意义，痛苦源自没有价值感的空虚。“知道自己为何而活的人就能承受几乎所有境遇中如何去活的问题。”意义治疗的目标之一，就是引导患者发现所正经受的痛苦的意义，知道为何要承受，也就能坦然地去承受了。对于我们这些学习着工作着的幸福的人来说，总会有那么些时刻,我们不得不缓下自己的脚步,问问自己:我们能不能承受生命之痛——对于那些已无法挽回的东西?能不能承受生命之重——带者内心的责任与爱,带着为人的尊严去面对一切?能不能承受生命之轻——在空虚甚至堕落之后,重新充盈自己的内心,重拾生命的信念?能不能? 弗兰克微笑着对你说:”这是你的自由,也是你的责任。”
Victor Frankl
Victor Frankl was a Jewish Austrian psychiatrist who was interned in a Nazi concentration camp during World War II. He lost his wife and family. Yet he emerged in triumph.
His story and this book have inspired many, including Steven Covey, of Seven Habits fame.
Frankl observed that many of the prisoners died when undergoing less hardship and suffering than those who survived. The survivors tended to be people who envisioned a future for themselves despite their present suffering, people who believed they had a meaning in life and did not surrender to despair.
He developed a psychological treatment method called logotherapy. According to Frankl, logotherapy is striving to find a meaning in one's life as the primary force. Frankl would help patients improve their mental health by helping them to discover meaning in their lives.
Although Frankl calls himself an existentialist, his is not the existentialism of despair of Sartre or Camus. Frankl is a scientist who believes that a valuable method of learning is to gather empirical knowledge from experience. He wholeheartedly embraces life and believes we can make our lives rich with meaning.
There is so much wisdom in this book that I can only give you a taste. It should be available in any public library, so get a copy and read it.
"The salvation of man is through love and in love."
"What matters is not the meaning of life in general but the specific meaning of a person's life at a given moment. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life to carry out a concrete assignment which demands fulfillment."
"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. Each man is questioned by life and can only answer to life by answering for his own life, by being responsible. Responsibleness is the essence of human existence."
by Michael C. Gray November 25, 1998
His story and this book have inspired many, including Steven Covey, of Seven Habits fame.
Frankl observed that many of the prisoners died when undergoing less hardship and suffering than those who survived. The survivors tended to be people who envisioned a future for themselves despite their present suffering, people who believed they had a meaning in life and did not surrender to despair.
He developed a psychological treatment method called logotherapy. According to Frankl, logotherapy is striving to find a meaning in one's life as the primary force. Frankl would help patients improve their mental health by helping them to discover meaning in their lives.
Although Frankl calls himself an existentialist, his is not the existentialism of despair of Sartre or Camus. Frankl is a scientist who believes that a valuable method of learning is to gather empirical knowledge from experience. He wholeheartedly embraces life and believes we can make our lives rich with meaning.
There is so much wisdom in this book that I can only give you a taste. It should be available in any public library, so get a copy and read it.
"The salvation of man is through love and in love."
"What matters is not the meaning of life in general but the specific meaning of a person's life at a given moment. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life to carry out a concrete assignment which demands fulfillment."
"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. Each man is questioned by life and can only answer to life by answering for his own life, by being responsible. Responsibleness is the essence of human existence."
by Michael C. Gray November 25, 1998
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