【解释】：绝处：死路。形容在最危险的时候得到生路。
“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” ~Albert Einstein
... opportunity come when we learn from the mistakes, and make the right decisions, actions in the future.
... opportunity to know whats is important for life.
Saturday, November 28, 2009
如果您足够清楚知道您自己想要的，外在情况是已经不重要了
My circumstance is different, you do not know what I am facing... this is not just about me, It's also involved the people who is with me.
Yes- Infact this is all about you now, who else have the energy, the right mind to solve the problem? the kid or the mindless mother?
Yes- Infact this is all about you now, who else have the energy, the right mind to solve the problem? the kid or the mindless mother?
POWER OF THE MASTER MIND
Since The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein we need a third mind.
Mastermind principle:
"The coordination of knowledge and effort of two or more people, who work toward a definite purpose, in the spirit of harmony."
"No two minds ever come together without thereby creating a third, invisible intangible force, which may be likened to a third mind."
~Napolean Hill
Mastermind principle:
"The coordination of knowledge and effort of two or more people, who work toward a definite purpose, in the spirit of harmony."
"No two minds ever come together without thereby creating a third, invisible intangible force, which may be likened to a third mind."
~Napolean Hill
遇强则强
遇强则强，越挫折越勇。
The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein
The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. ~Albert Einstein
愤世嫉俗
愤世嫉俗 有用吗?
不要浪费时间思考或谈论当权者有什么缺点...
Do not waste time thinking or talking about the shortcomings or wrong actions of plutocrats or trust magnates. Their organization of the world has made your opportunity; all you get really comes to you because of them.
Do not rage against, corrupt politicians; if it were not for politicians we should fall into anarchy, and your opportunity would be greatly lessened.
神花了很长时间﹐很有耐心地工作﹐才讓我们我们在工业和政府方面有这样的成绩, 而他仍在继续动工当中。
God has worked a long time and very patiently to bring us up to where we are in industry and government, and He is going right on with His work. There is not the least doubt that He will do away with plutocrats, trust magnates, captains of industry, and politicians as soon as they can be spared; but in the meantime, behold they are all very good. Remember that they are all helping to arrange the lines of transmission along which your riches will come to you, and be grateful to them all. This will bring you into harmonious relations with the good in everything, and the good in everything will move toward you.
~The Science of Getting Rich
Chapter 7: Gratitude
不要浪费时间思考或谈论当权者有什么缺点...
Do not waste time thinking or talking about the shortcomings or wrong actions of plutocrats or trust magnates. Their organization of the world has made your opportunity; all you get really comes to you because of them.
Do not rage against, corrupt politicians; if it were not for politicians we should fall into anarchy, and your opportunity would be greatly lessened.
神花了很长时间﹐很有耐心地工作﹐才讓我们我们在工业和政府方面有这样的成绩, 而他仍在继续动工当中。
God has worked a long time and very patiently to bring us up to where we are in industry and government, and He is going right on with His work. There is not the least doubt that He will do away with plutocrats, trust magnates, captains of industry, and politicians as soon as they can be spared; but in the meantime, behold they are all very good. Remember that they are all helping to arrange the lines of transmission along which your riches will come to you, and be grateful to them all. This will bring you into harmonious relations with the good in everything, and the good in everything will move toward you.
~The Science of Getting Rich
Chapter 7: Gratitude
幸运守则第3条
如果你时运不济， 或许是因为环境一成不变的缘故。 若想要幸运临门， 最有效的办法便是创造新环境。
Change the Church, Change the friends, Change the people around you...
Good Luck~当幸运来敲门
Change the Church, Change the friends, Change the people around you...
Good Luck~当幸运来敲门
选择,抉择
人生四个抉择: 教师, 配偶, 朋友, (终身的)职业
好老师使人受益一生
好配偶使人活在爱中
好朋友使人得到快乐
好事业人生 就完美了
-Amway convention 2009
Crown Ambassador Direct Distriutor
Anita (HK)
你选择对了,你的一生都走的好.
选择对了赢一生.
好老师使人受益一生
好配偶使人活在爱中
好朋友使人得到快乐
好事业人生 就完美了
-Amway convention 2009
Crown Ambassador Direct Distriutor
Anita (HK)
你选择对了,你的一生都走的好.
选择对了赢一生.
人类的终极自由
The last of the human freedoms is to choose one's attitudes. (人类的终极自由就是选择自己的态度。)——Victor Frankl 维克多.弗兰克
弗兰克：黑暗中的朝圣者 Victor Frankl (1905-1997)
1942年，纳粹逼近奥地利，27岁的维克多.弗兰克犹豫着要不要到美国避难。他已申请迁往美国的签证，但不能带走家人。凭借自己作为心理治疗师的那点小名声，留下来也许还能保护家人，可家人却催促他快些离开。签证通过了，弗兰克内心的矛盾激化了。别上那枚标志着犹太人身份的黄色小星星，步入位于维也纳市中心的圣斯蒂芬教堂，维克多静默祈祷：“主啊，请给我一个启示吧？”他究竟该带着一起被救的希望与家人留在维也纳，还是该只身前往美国，在那可以继续自己的心理学事业？当弗兰克回到家，发现父亲在流泪：“维克多，纳粹刚毁了犹太会教堂。”父亲手中紧握着的那块大理石碎片上刻着《十诫》中的首条：“荣耀你的父母，地上的生命将得到延续。”弗兰克拨通美国大使馆电话，取消了签证。他觉得自己已得到上帝的启示……命运终究无法抗拒。1942年至1945年，从奥斯维辛到巴伐利亚，辗转四个集中营，弗兰克发现自己几乎丧失了一切，父母、兄弟、妻子或病死于营中，或被送进了毒气室。当他在每天的饥饿、寒冷、拷打中意识到自己“除了可笑的赤裸裸的生命之外，没有任何东西可失去”时，他还能做些什么，还能发现生命有什么值得留恋的？
让们我按弗兰克划分的从“入营”到“出营”一个人所经历的三个心理阶段的顺序向你一一道来。弗兰克是如何在一个极端残酷的境遇中寻找生命的意义，如何将亲身经历融入其“意义理论”之中。
对我们的启示:
弗兰克说，“我们每个人都有自己心中的集中营……我们必须去面对，带着宽容，带着耐心——如同一个真正的人，如同我们现在与将来要成为的那个人。”在弗兰克的意义理论中，他提出人有三条途径去寻得生命的意义：一是通过主动创造性的工作。二是通过被动的体验，这儿的体验指的是对大自然，对艺术的欣赏，对爱情的感受。弗兰克认为真正的爱情是超越外表与性，进入到对方的精神内核，将对方视作独一无二的个体来珍视。第三，也是最高成就的意义，苦难的意义，在集中营的极端的环境中体现到极致。在意义的追寻中，弗兰克强调“自由与责任”。这儿的“自由”不是指自由地选择自己的境遇，而是对不可逆转的境遇，自由地选择面对它的态度。另一种意义上说，这种自由选择是对自己生命的负责。意义学派将“责任”视为人类存在中最重要的东西。在此，我们将弗兰克对责任的表述送给大家：“如同你在用第二次生命那样去生命，如同你第一次做错了现在重新开始。”弗兰克认为追寻自己存在的意义是独属于人的原始驱力。许多人来心理求助并非由于他们有心理疾病，而是他们对所经历所承受的东西寻不到意义，痛苦源自没有价值感的空虚。“知道自己为何而活的人就能承受几乎所有境遇中如何去活的问题。”意义治疗的目标之一，就是引导患者发现所正经受的痛苦的意义，知道为何要承受，也就能坦然地去承受了。对于我们这些学习着工作着的幸福的人来说，总会有那么些时刻,我们不得不缓下自己的脚步,问问自己:我们能不能承受生命之痛——对于那些已无法挽回的东西?能不能承受生命之重——带者内心的责任与爱,带着为人的尊严去面对一切?能不能承受生命之轻——在空虚甚至堕落之后,重新充盈自己的内心,重拾生命的信念?能不能? 弗兰克微笑着对你说:”这是你的自由,也是你的责任。”
让们我按弗兰克划分的从“入营”到“出营”一个人所经历的三个心理阶段的顺序向你一一道来。弗兰克是如何在一个极端残酷的境遇中寻找生命的意义，如何将亲身经历融入其“意义理论”之中。
对我们的启示:
弗兰克说，“我们每个人都有自己心中的集中营……我们必须去面对，带着宽容，带着耐心——如同一个真正的人，如同我们现在与将来要成为的那个人。”在弗兰克的意义理论中，他提出人有三条途径去寻得生命的意义：一是通过主动创造性的工作。二是通过被动的体验，这儿的体验指的是对大自然，对艺术的欣赏，对爱情的感受。弗兰克认为真正的爱情是超越外表与性，进入到对方的精神内核，将对方视作独一无二的个体来珍视。第三，也是最高成就的意义，苦难的意义，在集中营的极端的环境中体现到极致。在意义的追寻中，弗兰克强调“自由与责任”。这儿的“自由”不是指自由地选择自己的境遇，而是对不可逆转的境遇，自由地选择面对它的态度。另一种意义上说，这种自由选择是对自己生命的负责。意义学派将“责任”视为人类存在中最重要的东西。在此，我们将弗兰克对责任的表述送给大家：“如同你在用第二次生命那样去生命，如同你第一次做错了现在重新开始。”弗兰克认为追寻自己存在的意义是独属于人的原始驱力。许多人来心理求助并非由于他们有心理疾病，而是他们对所经历所承受的东西寻不到意义，痛苦源自没有价值感的空虚。“知道自己为何而活的人就能承受几乎所有境遇中如何去活的问题。”意义治疗的目标之一，就是引导患者发现所正经受的痛苦的意义，知道为何要承受，也就能坦然地去承受了。对于我们这些学习着工作着的幸福的人来说，总会有那么些时刻,我们不得不缓下自己的脚步,问问自己:我们能不能承受生命之痛——对于那些已无法挽回的东西?能不能承受生命之重——带者内心的责任与爱,带着为人的尊严去面对一切?能不能承受生命之轻——在空虚甚至堕落之后,重新充盈自己的内心,重拾生命的信念?能不能? 弗兰克微笑着对你说:”这是你的自由,也是你的责任。”
Victor Frankl
Victor Frankl was a Jewish Austrian psychiatrist who was interned in a Nazi concentration camp during World War II. He lost his wife and family. Yet he emerged in triumph.
His story and this book have inspired many, including Steven Covey, of Seven Habits fame.
Frankl observed that many of the prisoners died when undergoing less hardship and suffering than those who survived. The survivors tended to be people who envisioned a future for themselves despite their present suffering, people who believed they had a meaning in life and did not surrender to despair.
He developed a psychological treatment method called logotherapy. According to Frankl, logotherapy is striving to find a meaning in one's life as the primary force. Frankl would help patients improve their mental health by helping them to discover meaning in their lives.
Although Frankl calls himself an existentialist, his is not the existentialism of despair of Sartre or Camus. Frankl is a scientist who believes that a valuable method of learning is to gather empirical knowledge from experience. He wholeheartedly embraces life and believes we can make our lives rich with meaning.
There is so much wisdom in this book that I can only give you a taste. It should be available in any public library, so get a copy and read it.
"The salvation of man is through love and in love."
"What matters is not the meaning of life in general but the specific meaning of a person's life at a given moment. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life to carry out a concrete assignment which demands fulfillment."
"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. Each man is questioned by life and can only answer to life by answering for his own life, by being responsible. Responsibleness is the essence of human existence."
by Michael C. Gray November 25, 1998
His story and this book have inspired many, including Steven Covey, of Seven Habits fame.
Frankl observed that many of the prisoners died when undergoing less hardship and suffering than those who survived. The survivors tended to be people who envisioned a future for themselves despite their present suffering, people who believed they had a meaning in life and did not surrender to despair.
He developed a psychological treatment method called logotherapy. According to Frankl, logotherapy is striving to find a meaning in one's life as the primary force. Frankl would help patients improve their mental health by helping them to discover meaning in their lives.
Although Frankl calls himself an existentialist, his is not the existentialism of despair of Sartre or Camus. Frankl is a scientist who believes that a valuable method of learning is to gather empirical knowledge from experience. He wholeheartedly embraces life and believes we can make our lives rich with meaning.
There is so much wisdom in this book that I can only give you a taste. It should be available in any public library, so get a copy and read it.
"The salvation of man is through love and in love."
"What matters is not the meaning of life in general but the specific meaning of a person's life at a given moment. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life to carry out a concrete assignment which demands fulfillment."
"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. Each man is questioned by life and can only answer to life by answering for his own life, by being responsible. Responsibleness is the essence of human existence."
by Michael C. Gray November 25, 1998
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